Knowing what friendship is, what love is?
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T is really hard to distinguish between love and friendship. The boundary of these two things is sometimes fragile, and people who are trapped are usually young girls. So how to avoid these deadly mistakes?
I have known him for seven years. We played together together, my friends were jealous of this relationship. Between the two of us, all of our hearts were unscathed. When I was 17 years old, I wanted our relationship ... to turn. In a friend's birthday party, I went out to flirt with my boyfriend. The results were unexpected, he seemed unhappy and then avoided me ... "Or like," I still think I really love Vinh. Until one day, Hai appeared in my life, I realized that for Vinh, a boyfriend from high school, just love friends. Thanks to Hai, I don't confuse love and friendship. "
In terms of psychology, experts have summarized the following statements:
• It is love if:
- You are sick with the idea that you two will be apart during the summer.
- You feel your heart tickle when you look at another cute girl ...
- The shortcomings of a boyfriend mean nothing. For you, those flaws are even lovely!
- What do you wish for, the first kiss you will give to that boyfriend.
- You want to always please your boyfriend.
- When you have an appointment with your boyfriend, you will be able to run to the meeting place.
- Your heart beats when your boyfriend embraces you.
- You are extremely sad when your boyfriend is not with you.
- Before going to bed, your last thought is that boy.
- You can't stand it if that boyfriend deceives or leaves you.
- You are ready to do everything for that friend.
With the above signs, let me be friends with that boy "Above the friendship level". But what about "object"? Does that boyfriend set you in the heart? Or at least, does the guy stagger for you?
If you answered "yes" to the following questions, indeed, between you, love is really present ...
- Did you really introduce you to your parents?
- You always pay attention to how your makeup, hairstyle, costumes?
- Do you keep in touch with you, though only half a day apart?
- Do you often receive small gifts full of his symbols?
- During the dance, do you often invite you to dance with him?
- When you give him a date, in your eyes are there special joys?
- Appointment, he is always the first to come?
- Do you often praise you?
- When talking together, do you use gentle, soft words?
- You seem annoyed to come out when there's a strange guy flirting with you?
- Have you ever consulted about your private affairs?
• And that is pure love, if ...
- Playing together for a long time, he has never hugged you with emotion.
- He often confides in you about old girlfriends and models of dreams.
- Going with you, but he showed an interest in other girls.
- He really enjoyed it when you introduced your beautiful charming girlfriend.
- He was absent for a long time without telling you.
- He didn't notice that today you were wearing new pants.
- No matter how attractive your outfit is, he is indifferent.
- One of his friends flirted with you, he still had no reaction.
- You put on you quick kisses.
- He introduced you as "a good friend of mine".
• Can a friendship turn into love?
In fact, it is difficult to get a solid answer to this problem. This depends on a number of things. But anyway, this concept is still risky ... And this could be possible if ...
- Since you know each other, your eyes are different, it's more affectionate ...
- You master all the news about him, and his heart does not have a shadow.
- Once he took your hand with a very affectionate gesture without any special reason. What he had never done before.
- Sometimes, he shows how much you really need him, wants to see you appear more with him.
- You all have lunch with your family. What has never happened since we know each other.
- While you're abandoned, he's always with you.
- He often tells his friends that you are a great girl.
Psychologically, a deep friendship connects you with a guy, but you love him so much and hope to live with a love full of dreams? In this case, you should never expect to burn the stage. In order to be successful, it is necessary to be skillful and apply psychological factors.
Do your intention in a gentle, peaceful way so that he doesn't feel pressured. And you should be definitive if:
- He confessed to falling in love with one of your girlfriends.
- He introduced you to one of his good friends.
- He always said that the friendship between him and you was precious to him.
- He always treated you like a sister.
- He went out with a girlfriend who had a close relationship with you.
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