Good sympathy in communication
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I am most interested in communication that is to create sympathy for the opponent, and what about me? I believe that every first concern in communication is to create sympathy. for the enemy. Especially in the first meeting, the first appointment or the beginning, it is not easy for everyone to do. Small, maybe it's your clothes, or a smile, ... but you can get good things, or you can lose a contract!
Are you always prepared before meeting someone? Do you pay attention to your clothes, jewelry or perfume? "Apparel is a wordless message, how you wear is a way for you to convey information," said Miss Ngoc Khanh. Indeed, a valuable costume is not always appropriate and honors who you are!
To a job application in an office job, you wear jeans and pull-up jeans; or go to a partner who is a fashion expert in a youthful café, you are "wall-locked" in a sleek and classic shirt ..., you may have lost points from the first glance The fairy of the people you are about to communicate. Or jewelry too cumbersome, or not age-appropriate, the perfume is too smelly, but you don't know if people who meet you are affected by the scents!
A very important "art" for sympathy in communication is your language. Your grandparents' words: Birds are free to sing / Smart people speak soft and easy words "... see never wrong. A gentle, elegant voice; sounding up and down in a timely manner is always easy to enter into the hearts of those who are unreasonably loud.
A Vietcombank personnel officer confided: "I am very annoyed to see that many students are interns, or new graduates, even though they have been trained before, but do not seem to have a sense of opening a smile and friendly greetings when meeting the previous colleagues in the agency.
I think high school or university lecturers need to take the form of educating these life skills to these young people, because they are important things in life and make others love or hate you even if you haven't told them. Any words "...
To score points, you also have to memorize things that seem small but not small: the name of the person you are talking to. The next time you meet again, you may forget but please apologize to them as you forget, instead of calling them by the names "she", "she" ... while age and shoulders Your not allowed.
Also, if you remember their interests, the better for you, the easier it will be for them to win their feelings. And the compliment, do you "save" the compliment? A compliment for your wife, for your husband, for your children, and for the larger one is a colleague ... - do you often send them in the right way, at the right time, or do you think it's not important.
Listening is also an art, from eye contact to your posture. Practice yourself a way to listen properly, your eyes are not too "fixed" on the person who is talking, or there is no concentration; slight nods while listening to others will also help people appreciate you. Important, you should also remember: To be honest and listen a lot ... Communication is an activity that you face regularly, anytime, anywhere, from simple to complex, from one person to another to the crowd. To complete, you need a process and sometimes you need to study well. By having the sympathy in communication, you will easily accomplish many things you want ...
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